Are you a good role model for children?
I rarely go on a rant. In fact, I can’t even remember my last one. BUT – OMG! So my lovely husband and I went to the movies on Sunday for our 6th wedding anniversary. We saw The Hangover, which is great. I loved it. However, I was disturbed the entire movie & here 2 days later, I’m still disturbed! We saw a family walk in with 2, yes 2, small girls. I would say they were probably 6 years old, give or take a year. I couldn’t believe it. How is it ever okay for an innocent child to see a rated R movie?
If you haven’t seen The Hangover, it’s a movie about a BACHELOR PARTY IN VEGAS…HELLO???
Do people really think the “f” word, nudity, sex & violence are okay for children? I guess so because my sister witnessed the exact same thing this past weekend. WHAT?
I know I can’t control what other people do. I just feel so sorry for these kids. Children are so innocent, so full of life, so confident, and so spiritually connected. And then life happens. For some, they learn how “bad” they are. They learn disrespect and how to stress. They’re taught they’re not good enough, and that they don’t matter. They’re stripped of their innocence, and some are even taught the “f” bomb!
And now, those kids are going to be in class with my kids. Am I going to have to have the birds & bees talk at age 5?
Since I can’t control what other people do (including other kids), the only thing I can do is be the best mom I can for my kids. To me, that means being the best person that I can be. I see children (including my own) watching every move their parents make, so being a role model is SO important. I want my kids to see my confidence. I want my kids to see how calm & happy I am. I want them to watch me interact with other people and see how I react (or don’t react) to situations that arise. I want them to see how grateful I am for the things we have, and I want to be connected to my true self and take action based on inspiration. I want to be honest, to love, and to give. I want my children to see me exercising and eating healthy. Basically, I just want them to see me staying true to myself, and staying connected to a higher power than myself. If I am completely aware of me (I am aware of my behavior, my thinking, and just how I’m being) then my kids will do & be the same. They will be the best people that they are!
I just hope & pray that when my children get into school and are around these other kids that are cussing, disrespecting, and have bad behavior that they stay true to themselves. That they treat everyone with respect and have compassion, but at the same time know right from wrong. That they stay full of love and light!
Okay, I’m done ranting and feel much better! Now, if you haven’t seen The Hangover, go see it immediately…just make sure you get a babysitter!
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